David Brydon and Ashley Richardson are seeking IVF treatment
By Sharon Barbour
Health Correspondent, BBC Look North
A paralysed man seeking in vitro fertilisation (IVF) to have children with his partner has said they may have to move after NHS funding was rejected.
David Brydon of Ponteland was paralysed from the waist down when he broke his neck falling down the stairs in 2021.
He and partner Ashley Richardson had their application for IVF funding refused by regional decision-makers as he already has a daughter.
North East and Cumbria Integrated Care Board said it could not comment.
Mr Brydon, who has been with Ms Richardson for six years, had gone to get something from his car when he tripped and fell down the stairs at the couple’s home in Ashington.
‘Discrimination’
“I instantly knew something had happened, I could not feel my legs,” he said.
His injuries left the couple unable to conceive naturally so they applied for NHS funding for IVF, but it was turned down and a follow up appeal was rejected.
Guidelines set by the National Institute for Health and Care Excellence (NICE) allow three cycles of free IVF funded through the NHS.
David Brydon and Ashley Richardson face the prospect of raising £10,000 or moving to Lancashire where they meet funding criteria
But rules vary and some parts of England allow just one cycle while others have stricter criteria such as not allowing it for anyone who already has a child.
Mr Brydon said Ms Richardson did not have children already and was being “discriminated” against.
“[She] does not have any kids so to give her a child would mean the world, it would mean everything,” he said.
‘Cruel in the extreme’
The couple receive Universal Credit, disability payments and a carer’s allowance after Ms Richardson left her job to care for her partner.
They now would either have fund the treatment themselves, which could cost more than £10,000, or be forced to move to another region such as Lancashire where there are different rules.
Ms Richardson said she was “shocked” by the refusal.
“I could go and get a sperm donor on the NHS yet I have a partner who I love, who I want to have a child with but because he had a child 10 years ago it’s not an option,” she said.
The decision to refuse NHS treatment has been described as “appalling” and “cruel” by charity Fertility Network UK.
“National guidance is all about who is clinically eligible – this is social rationing and it is absolutely cruel in the extreme and it shouldn’t be happening,” chief executive Dr Catherine Hill said.
“We are the country that pioneered IVF, we shouldn’t be doing this to people who desperately need help,” Dr Hill added.
North East and Cumbria Integrated Care Board, which now sets the criteria around eligibility for IVF in the region, said it could not comment on individual cases.
The Department of Health and Social Care was approached for a comment.
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