Laura Prosser and Martyn have been together for 13 years and are tying the knot but want to manage costs
By Felicity Evans
Money editor, Wales
Family, friends and fish finger sandwiches are the only things Laura Prosser and her partner Martyn need for their perfect wedding.
Weddings are expensive and, with soaring prices, they were determined to stick to their £5,000 budget.
Laura and Martyn are not alone in trying to manage the costs of their big day.
It comes as the Office for National Statistics (ONS) announced UK inflation fell to 6.8% in July from 7.9% in June.
Matthew Corder of the ONS said this slowing of inflation was being driven by the falling prices of gas and electricity.
“Although remaining high, food price inflation has also eased again, particularly for milk, bread and cereal,” he said.
Laura, 41, a personal trainer from Penarth, said she was relaxed about her big day this coming Friday.
“I think we’ve actually come in under budget,” she said. “So we’re looking forward to just enjoying with friends and family.”
She has been with her partner Martyn, 50, for more than a decade and they have a child together.
How much does a wedding cost?
Figures from wedding planning service Bridebook indicate a UK wedding in 2023 costs an average of £19,000, including £1,500 for a dress, £1,800 on music and entertainment and £5,000 on catering.
However, Laura spent £150 on her dress and her mum has been tasked with making big batches of Welsh cakes for guests.
“We were quite cut-throat from the start,” Laura said. “There’s no free bar, there’s no great entertainment. It’s just close friends, family and fish finger sandwiches.
“It’s simple, but it’s the people we want to be there for our moment.”
Though she admits there were some contentious issues – with her mum insisting on flowers.
“I never wanted [them], but apparently everyone has to have some level of flowers. So the small things do add up.”
Cheap wedding tips
Laura also offered a tip to others: “Start with a basic registry office and then maybe don’t even tell venues it’s a wedding. Because once you say wedding, they seem to just add this magical money.”
Wedding consultant Zoe Binning said the most important step for couples on a budget is to agree on priorities.
Weddings are in full bloom at Fairyhill, Gower
Wedding consultant Zoe Binning said the most important step for couples on a budget is to agree on priorities.
“If you want really good food and drink, work out how many people you can cater for,” she said.
“Or if a really amazing photographer is most important, work out what it’s going to cost you and stick to it – whatever happens.”
Being flexible on days of the week, times of the year and the number of guests can make the event much cheaper.
She said the biggest costs are the venue and catering, “usually around 50% of your total budget”.
“That is where the main bulk of the of the cost is, but also where there’s the biggest opportunity to adapt.”
Shakira Obaid says savings can be made by choosing dates at Easter instead of during the summer
Shakira Obaid, commercial director at wedding venue operator Oldwalls Collection, said: “It used to be all about a Saturday in August, but you can have a beautiful wedding at Easter, or there’s the school holidays in February.
“If you’re willing to compromise, then perhaps there could be massive savings to be made.”
Wedding providers are also watching costs closely and looking to offer competitive deals, according to Ms Obaid.
Oldwalls has recently introduced a fixed price “whirlwind package”.
“To secure the very best rates, you might need to be looking to bring that wedding forward,” she said. “But six to 12 months is still ample opportunity to plan a wedding.”
